Monday, December 20, 2010

It's Been a Pretty Busy Weekend...

With less than six months to go (oh my goodness me!), we have been spending an inordinate amount of our personal time getting things in line for D Day. This weekend's agenda:


Saturday
12 noon - Appointment with jeweller's for wedding bands (ordered!)
3pm - Shopping for shoes (for me) and shirts (for him) for the photoshoot - bought nought
6pm - Recce site for photoshoot (we picked it)
730pm - Final fitting at the bridal studio (more padding for me, an extra jacket for him)


Sunday
12 noon - At the salon for a new look
5pm - More shopping. I eventually find two pairs of shoes, he gets two shirts, a pair of pants, a vest and 2 accessories.
9pm - Discuss bouquet details with Ching over text messaging


And yes, we are still excited and looking forward to the big day. I still can't figure out why people always tell me they aren't excited about their own weddings!

Saturday, August 07, 2010

Sweet Disposition...

This. Song. Is. FRIGGING. Incredible.







And the live version is pretty darn good too.







Lyrics:
sweet disposition
never too soon
oh reckless abandon
like no one's
watching you


a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh


chorus
just stay there
cause i'll be comin over
and while our blood's still young
it's so young
it runs
and we won't stop 'til it's over
won't stop to surrender


songs of desperation
I played them for you
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh


chorus:
just stay there
cause i'll be comin over
and while our blood's still young
it's so young
it runs
and we won't stop 'til it's over
won't stop to surrender


a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs (won't stop 'til it's over)
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs(won't stop 'til it's over)
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs (won't stop 'til it's over)
a moment, a love
a dream, a laugh
a moment, a love
a moment, a love (won't stop to surrender)

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

OMG Joe!

Recently watched Inception. Recently fell in love with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, or Joe for short. OMG Joe!



Interview with Peter Travers from Rolling Stone:



Interview with Jimmy Fallon:





And this really awesome short film, a result of a collaboration of artistes of various media on hitRECord:

Friday, June 04, 2010

I'm Getting Hitched!

Honestly, I don't know why it took me so long to "announce" this here, but yes, The Boyfriend will henceforth be known as The Fiancé. Actually no, I never refer to him as that in reality, only sometimes the husband-to-be. So yes, he will hencforce be known as the HTB.

I just got off the phone with the HTB not long ago, after wishing each other Happy Anniversary. We are also counting down to the wedding, with 365 days to go. Yup, we will be married come 4th June next year, 2011. Our seventh anniversary (a good way to ward away the Itch, no?).

The venue's been booked, the bridal package's been purchased, and now we're on the hunt for the car, a photog (got someone in mind already, actually) and a videographer. Exciting, exciting days ahead. 

I can't wait!

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

On the way home the other day, I suddenly remembered the S$8,000 Labradoodle we saw at Mt Pleasant animal clinic the other day. Yes, you read right. Eight thousand Singapore dollars.

At the next traffic stop (we were on his bike), I wondered out loud to The Boyfriend: "Why would someone pay S$8,000 for a dog? I wouldn't even pay S$800 for one."

Without skipping a beat (I really don't know how he read my mind), he huffed and said, "Even S$80 is considered too much! There are so many dogs out there you can get for free."

Granted, it could've been more eloquently put, but nonetheless it's true. There're so many dogs out there waiting to find a good home. And many of them have the potential to be good dogs.


And when they make you feel like this:


You know pedigree doesn't mean a thing.

Tuesday, February 02, 2010

I'll Have a Guinness

The Boyfriend came home after a weekend getaway to be greeted by a sad-looking puppy outside his door. It was corralled in a corner, meek and shy, a captive of his dad who had brought him back from the construction site at which he worked.

He remembered his dad mention that he'd been seeing a cute little pup with his littermates and mum around, and would try to bring him home if he had a chance. But he didn't know his dad had meant what he said!

Sadly, no one wanted to take ownership of the black ball of fur. So back to the construction site the little critter went.

The next afternoon, I received a call from The Boyfriend. "Hey," he said. "How about having a pet with me?"

"You mean the puppy your dad brought home last night?"

"Yup..."

"But I thought no one wanted him, and he brought him back?"

"Yes, but the guy is really very cute, so I thought maybe we should take him in."

"Are you serious? A dog is a very big commitment you know?"

"Yes, so that's why I'm asking you to help me."

"So.. he'll be our dog?"

Again: "Yes."

And just like that, I was sold, without even having seen the puppy. Of course I'd asked The Boyfriend to describe its looks and behaviour, but what really sealed the deal was the fact that this was the closest he'd ever been to an outright long-term commitment with me. Naturally, I melted at the idea.

The puppy, thankfully, turned out very cute, but we were stuck for a name.

"Let's call him Blackie," The Boyfriend offered helpfully.

"No!!! How unimaginative."

I then suggested Bruno, but he didn't want a human name. So we tossed names about, but nothing felt right, and then it was time for me to go home.

Downstairs, a thought suddenly struck me. But I wasn't sure if it was too outlandish a name, or too difficult for his parents to remember Still, it was worth a try.

"How about Guinness?"

"Guinness? As in the men's beverage?"

"Uh-huh. He's mostly black, with bits of brown that reminds me of the foam on top of the drink."

"Hm...!" He said thoughtfully. I could tell he liked the sound of it.

"Let's try it on for size the next couple of days. If we don't like it, or if we think of something else, we can still change it."

But somehow, it stuck. That was two months ago. Guinness, or Guin for short, is now a vivacious, intelligent and mischievous pup. Check out the (amateur) chart below to see how he's grown!

Wednesday, December 09, 2009

Thoughts of the day

If someone tells you something, but you sense something else, who should you listen to?

If you give someone feedback about themselves, but are wishy-washy about it, you'll probably do more harm than good.

Speculation is slow poison.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Molly's Closet - Wedding (Dinner) Outfits

This year is going to go down in history as The Year of Weddings. Not withstanding the stand-alone ROMs, by 31st December 2009, I expect to have attended no less than 10 weddings.

Some weddings I go to alone, and some The Boyfriend and I are invited as a couple. For the latter, some effort is usually put in to ensure our outfits match in some way. So I thought, before wedding dinner fatigue sets in, why not do a collage of our Royal Matchiness?

Why not indeed? I think we have all but two.


Thursday, September 10, 2009

An ERP Story

Two weeks ago yesterday, I went to catch the film The Blind Beast, which is part of the line-up of this year's Japanese Film Festival. I was there with my colleague, who had alerted me to the festival, and her boyfriend.

The movie was good (and free), better than another festival offering that I'd paid money for to watch. (If you have to know, it was A Snake of June.) But that's not what this blog entry is about. It's what happened after the movie, on our way home, that was unforgettable.

When I think back about it I wonder if it were my fault. The film was screened at the National Museum, which we all know is walking distance from Dhoby Ghaut station. Yet, somehow, I assumed that my colleague would be giving me a lift, because my previous experiences with her were of futile attempts to make my own way back home/to my destination. I didn't even ask her, I just said "Oh, you can drop me at the nearest MRT station". I don't know really know why, actually. I could have very well just walked to the station myself.

Anyway, they being the nice people they are, decided to send me home. Her boyfriend took the wheel, and I took a rear passenger seat. We took the CTE, and it was around 9.20pm. Everyone knows that on CTE the ERP gantry between Jalan Bahagia and PIE is in operation till 10.30pm right? Wrong.

We were on Lane 2, approaching the gantry, and traffic was rather heavy so we were not travelling exceptionally fast. Say, 70 or 80km/h. I remember were discussing the movie in the car, from the director's purpose in making films, to what the film was trying to convey, when I noticed that the Merc ahead of us was exceptionally slow. So slow, it seemed almost stationary.

I leaned forward to get a better look – by then we were  maybe about 5 car lengths behind it – and realized it was indeed not moving. "Look out, the car's not moving," I immediately alerted my colleague's boyfriend, noting a slight sense of alarm in my voice. Instantly I felt the car slow as he hit the brakes, but still it was rolling steadily towards the Merc. He just had enough time to utter "Oh no we're not going to make it," before the inevitable took place.

Upon impact we were all flung forwards, then back, and thank goodness I'm a scaredy cat and I always put on a seatbelt even when I'm seated in the rear, because the impact was great enough to send my handphone flying to the front of the car, and for my glasses to pop off my face and onto my lap.

When I opened my eyes again and exhaled, there was a dull ache in my chest, as if someone had used a hammer and hit it against the point where the seatbelt made contact on my skin. The next five or six breaths were equally agonizing, but I remember replying "I'm ok" to my colleague's worried calls of "Is everyone ok?" I also remember a smarting pain on both sides of my hips, which I recognised to be the other contact points the seatbelt had with my body. My tongue felt a bit numb, and so I knew I must've bit onto it during the accident.

After locating my spectacles, and failing to locate my handphone, I undid the buckle of my seatbelt, got out of the car gingerly, and tremblingly joined my colleague and her boyfriend outside the car, where the driver of the other car was also standing.

She was a new driver, panicky because this was her husband's car, and she told us that the car in front of her had slammed on its brakes before the gantry, then drove off after presumably inserting the cashcard. She managed to stop her car in time, but thereafter was too shocked to resume driving, or to even recall what its license plate number was.

I had a look at my colleague's car, a wee vehicle of barely 600cc, and saw that its front headlamps were smashed. The bonnet was a little crushed too, and steam was coming out from under it. There even appeared to be a leak of some sort. My colleague called the police, who said they were sending over an ambulance.

Being on Lane 2, we were obviously creating a bit of a traffic jam, so we had to drive the cars onto the road shoulder. There was an ironic beep of the IU when we passed under the gantry. I remember feeling really vulnerable while waiting for the ambulance to arrive, because I was paranoid that we would cause another accident. My colleague, on the other hand, was exceedingly brave; she directed traffic while her boyfriend was steering the car to the road shoulder.

(Aside: While waiting, we also witnessed another near-accident, in the same lane, for the same reasons, this time with a taxi. Then, two days after the incident, my colleague drove by the same spot again, and saw that yet another accident had taken place under similar circumstances.)

Anyway, to cut the long story short, I got transported to A&E in an ambulance, waited for over an hour to be attended to by a doctor and had various procedures done on me – heart check, several x-rays, an ultrasound and a jab to relieve me of my chest and neck pains (from the whiplash effect). I was wheeled around on a hospital bed for over 4 hours that night. I don't know which ordeal was worse.

I'm much better now, of course – the only physical reminder of that night is the pain I sometimes get in my chest, but it goes away when I take my medication. My dad said I should really write in and complain, that they should erect road signs that signal the upcoming gantries (e.g. ERP Gantry 1km away!), and state the operating timings. But for now, this blog entry shall have to do.

Sunday, August 02, 2009

Top 5 Signs You've Been Working Far More Than is Considered Acceptable

5. Every night in the office, you have to stand up and yell "I'm still here!" when someone turns off the lights.
4. You suddenly recall, one week after the payment due date, that you have yet to settle your credit card bill.
3. You think it is okay getting 4-5 hours of sleep per night, every night.
2. You have repetitive strain injury in your index finger from using the little cursor directional... nipple thing that's found on your laptop.
1. When you accidentally flip your clothes inside out, you start looking for the "undo" button.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Hotel Re! Stay

As promised! Pictures from our anniversary stay at Hotel Re!. (Tsk. How to end a sentence with two punctuation marks?! ...Well! Apparently you can.)

Our verdict of the boutique/budget hotel would hover around the 3/3.5 out of 5 mark.

For starters, the hotel was kinda ulu, I reckon you'd have to walk some distance before chancing upon any decent food. We also had to wait at least 15 minutes for our room (no we weren't late):




Service was pretty mediocre. When we asked for a late check-out, the reception staff turned us down without bothering to check. Her tone, though polite, was also firm and final. (On the up side, however, we did get a glass of ice from the hotel restaurant, no questions asked, to bring back to our room.)

Hotel lobby. This was taken during check-out. And check out the long queue of people waiting to check out! Damn slow staff. And they tried to charge us for the non-drink items on the mini-bar menu, when our room package came with mini-bar! And we double-checked before our stay!

By the way, I was quite amused with the guy in the middle of the frame, looking straight into the lens.
One of the highlights of the hotel was the decor. Behold, Marilyn Monroe greets you whenever you take the lift! (Looks deceive, however. It was always an appallingly hot and stuffy ride in the day.)




Next two pictures: Bathroom door and bathroom, groovily tiled.




Groovy chairs.


The rest of our groovy room. I assume the three silhouettes to represent Charlie's Angels. Very disappointed not to have gotten the Elvis room.



Us in front of our room.



A portion of the gift I gave The Boyfriend. :)



Outtake: It rained on our way back so we had to make a pitstop in the tunnel. I got bored, so decided to snap a pic I wouldn't otherwise have had the chance to.


Ok my neckache's coming back on again. Is it ok to post first, edit later? I suppose it'll have to do.

P.S. Yes, this post has since been edited - 18 June 2009

Monday, June 08, 2009

5 Super Years!

Last Thursday marked the 5th anniversary of my relationship with The Boyfriend. That's right, 5 years! We are damn proud of ourselves, haha.

Still in the midst of editing the photos we took, and I would like to hit the sheets before midnight tonight, so I won't be putting them up just yet.

... Okay, I'll leave you with one photo. Actually, it's a photo of a photo, a polaroid to be exact. The original is with The Boyfriend so I'll have to be content with this:


Tuesday, May 26, 2009

It's Another One of Those Nights...

Rare nowadays to have the night to myself, I find it hard to say "good night" and to let go.

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

New Friend

I made a friend today.

I'd noticed his presence in my neighbourhood for the longest time; always a loner, he would appear every once in a while, presumably to patrol his territory. His battle-worn face was not the friendliest or prettiest of miens, so I only paid scant attention to him.

Lately, however, the black cat had been moping around the grass patch in front of my block, sleeping the days and nights away. Even if I wished to see his face, I wouldn't have been able to - not once in the many times I passed him did he lift his head from the ground.

But I knew he was still surviving, however frailly. He would take shelter when it rained, and in the hotter hours of the day, he would seek the shade from nearby bushes.

However, his general non-activity increasingly worried me, especially since I did not know how, when or where he got his sustenance from, or indeed if he still fed. It's always painful to see an life fade away, no matter how small.

So when I saw him again last night, I told myself if he were still here today, I would buy him something to eat. On my way home, I remembered this promise I made to myself-to him really-and wondered if he would even be in a condition to eat. I wondered if the money spent would be money wasted.

True enough, when I approached the grass patch, his dark body was there. This time, however, he was not in his usual spot in the middle of the patch, but at the edges of it, lying motionless. Fearing that he had breathed his last, I quickened my pace to approach him. This enabled me to see that he was not lying down, but in fact, crouching and drinking from a small pool of water in the grass. As I drew close, he looked up, and his eyes, wet with infection, met with mine.

And that did it for me. I knew he was still trying to take care of himself, so it was worth a shot. I went to the nearby mini-mart and got him a tin of catfood. As I neared the grass's edge, I opened the tin.

His ears pricked, and he turned to look at me.

I decided to pick a spot closer to him, and walked round the edge of the grass to the other side. He studied me, and watched keenly as I placed the meal on the raised concrete slab concealing a drain.

I walked off, worried that he would be fearful of me and run away if I came too near. But to my surprise, when I turned back, I realised that he had not headed towards the food, but to me. So I backtracked and led him to the tin of food, where he gingerly sniffed at it, then proceeded to rub his head against my legs.

This cat was either blind, lost his sense of smell, or just plain manja.

Eventually, I had to scoop out the food from the tin, and he would proceed to chow it down eagerly, yet with a neatness that is quintessential of a cat. A neatness that one would not expect of a cat like him. The disjoint images of his scar-lined face versus the earnesty of the leg rub, the etiquette of his table manners, made me view this cat in a different light.

After his meal, I took a last look at him before taking the lift back home. He was grooming himself now, the first time I had ever seen him do so, the sign of a satisfied meal (surely).

Monday, May 04, 2009

Hooray for the Old Guard!

As well as for common decency, honesty, and respect for proper discourse on matters of morality/ethics.



Monday, April 27, 2009

Last Order

Heard Yoga Lin sing it on "百万大歌星" earlier tonight, and remembered his very memorable performance on "超級星光大道" which was simultaneously mesmerising and bewildering:



And from the original singer (Easonnn!!!!):

Sunday, April 05, 2009

Orange Moon

The first time I heard Eason's version, I was mesmerised and enthralled. The first time I heard 方大同's, I was blown away. Here, they perform the song together. Orgasmic.

P/S I bought Khalil's album just for this song.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

I Stand Corrected

Of late, I've been seeing this phrase being used in our company internal foums quite often. A member of staff would start off a post with the statement "I stand corrected", then go on to tell everyone how he (it tends to be a guy) feels something should be done, with nary any reference to how he was wrong.

"I stand corrected" basically means "I have been proven wrong". What these people meant to say, however, is "I stand to be corrected". As in, "I believe the procedure is this-and-such-a-way, but correct me if I'm wrong".

Can't they just keep things nice and simple?
Parting note: Vampire Weekend's song of the same name.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The Mundane Life

First two photos: Toa Payoh

First Thai Restaurant, 23 Purvis Street


Monday, March 09, 2009

SIFF'ed Out: Films to Watch

Films I'm gonna catch at the 2009 SIFF:

1. Sincerely Yours
2. Girl Inside
3. Lucky7 (I know! I missed it for a whole year!!)
4. Let's Fall in Love
5. Boy Interrupted